DEATH

DOULA

Say hello using the form below, and I’ll get back to you within three days. As a full-time death doula, my work often takes me deep into in-person tending, so I appreciate your patience as I balance the digital with the sacred. Please share as much detail as you can, and I’ll find the best way for us to connect and work together.

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YOU DON’T HAVE TO CHOOSE BETWEEN breaking down AND holding it all together.

The very thing you thought would consume you has the power to transform you. Let’s talk about grief.

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  • "Paola has a way of holding space that feels like being wrapped in the arms of the earth itself - powerful , soft, steady, and unshakable. Her work is so multidimensional, like medicine for my soul, and I’ll take every class she ever offers."

    Isabel R.

  • "Losing my mother left me unmoored. I was lost. Paola not only helped me navigate my grief with such gentleness and wisdom, but the tea she blended for me became part of my daily ritual, teaching me to nourish myself. Her work is sacred."

    Daniel M.

  • "Paola is a magical human and I’m so grateful to have found her! I feel that just being near her, I learn to walk with death by osmosis. She's one of those people who KNOWS her stuff, and LOVES what she does, and you can feel it. Best mastermind I've ever taken."

    Elena V.

  • "Her Death Cafe was lit! Where has this kind of open, honest, transformative conversation been all my life?! She centers the LGBTQIA+ death and dying experience in a way I rarely see. We're looking forward to the next one!"

    —Carrie & Poe

  • "Her class helped me see that my deep, deep grief was because of the deep, deep love I have for my partner. I am transformed."

    -Alexander

Upcoming CLASSES

In my work as a Death Doula and Grief Coach, I offer deep support, a space to honor your transition, and the tools to integrate your experience - all while ensuring you feel truly held and resourced. This is more than guidance; it’s about remembering how to resource yourself and reclaiming a lineage of care & dignity that modern culture has forgotten.